The end of a chapter

So tomorrow marks my last day in the office. The last four and a half months have gone by so quickly and like most things that come to an end its bitter sweet. I've been given the opportunity to work with some truly amazing people. The atmosphere is like none other. Especially during these economically trying times it has been immensely refreshing to work for people who aren't looking out for themselves, but for the well being of everyone. I think this is a lesson that couldn't have come at a better time. In times like these I feel it is easy to switch into "survival mode" and begin looking out solely for oneself, but we'll never get anywhere with an attitude like that. I'm glad to be reminded of this on a daily basis, because it's so easy to forget. So that's the bitter part, I will be sad knowing that I won't be waking up everyday to see my new work family, but there is sweetness too.

This chapter coming to an end means that I am that much closer to the next one: LA. It looks like March 1st is the officially tentative move date and I'm beginning to get really excited. As much as it scares me sometimes the idea of a new place, new people, new job it's also really thrilling. I always thought that I would try to move to LA as soon as I could after graduation because I was afraid that I would loose steam, and let my fears get the best of me, but the last few months have taught me quite the opposite. The fire inside of me is burning ever stronger and I find myself itching to get in the game. I'm going into this with far less doubt and more confidence than I think I would have six months ago. One thing life has taught me is that everything is ever changing. Life does not end with failure, it begins with every new choice you make. I'll do what I love to do until it no longer holds joy for me, then I'll find the new place where my passions lie. I have no idea what the future holds, but for now I know that this is what I want to do, every fiber of my being tells me that.

I can't wait to leave Santa Barbara and embark on my own life!

Resolutions

A little update because I've realized that I've forgotten some important ones:

Journal more:

After a wonderful girls night with Taylor, which included great wine and hours of talking, I've realized how important it is for me to get my thoughts out of my head. I'm a bit of a Hamlet. I think about everything. This can be a great thing, but it can also be a burden. I used to have a hard time keeping journals because I didn't like the ever changing nature of my thoughts and emotions, the minute I wrote something I might feel differently, but that's the point. That's why it's all the more important to keep track. If nothing else its interesting to look back and ponder the ever changing nature of the human mind.

Travel more/at all:

I have a bit of a nomadic nature which is perhaps why I've always loved acting and its ever changing world, but its been a while since I've gone anywhere. I feel myself in a bit of a funk and for me the cure is always, always traveling. It is my drug, my prozac if you will. I'm in a bit of a limbo right now. I'm working in a job that I know is temporary, living in an apartment that I'll be leaving in a matter of days/months, just waiting to really do anything until I move to LA. I need to go somewhere new, exotic, a place my eyes have never seen before. I need to jump on a plane and be thrust into a new world, broaden my perspective, press the refresh button on my mind. This has now reached the top of my list as my #1 resolution for 2010.

Happy New Year!!!

First off HAPPY NEW YEAR everyone!

I couldn't be more excited to start this new year, and anyone who has read a few of my previous posts would know why. Last year was a year for trying experiences, I declare this one as a year of prosperity. And since this is now printed on the all powerful internets it must be so!

As I sat on the beach yesterday in perfect, near 80 degree, weather I had a feeling that the world was agreeing with me. So I sat and smiled and watched sandpipers scamper in the surf. Frankie lay at my side snapping at sand flies and Erik was on a board in the water doing what he loves most, my world was at peace. I choose yesterday as a sign for my year to come.

Now its time for some resolutions:

I will not stress about money:

This will be a tough one since it has its spiny little fingers in all aspects of our lives, however I am now making the conscious decision to not let it rule my life. Too much of last year was wasted over bills, bills, and bills. Bills will always exist, I'm responsible, they shouldn't get to me so much.

Keep in better contact with people:

Now this is my biggy for this year. Anyone of my friends who does not share my area code can tell you that I am awful at staying in contact via phone. I don't know why, I've just always been this way. I'm great on the phone when it comes to work, but when it comes to my personal life I much prefer face time. I have many excuses (working two jobs, busy busy, etc.) and that is part of it, but I've just never been one of those girls with a phone attached to my head, I'm just a little awkward when it comes to the phone. I always love the conversations I have, so this year I am making a conscious decision to pick up the phone and call more.

Live without regret:

This is one that I remind myself on a daily basis. Regret is a negative emotion that in my book isn't very productive. Evaluate, learn, remember the past and adjust for the future, but don't dwell in it. Laugh at your mistakes, fix what you can, prepare for the future and move on. Easier said than done, but its something I try to keep in the back of my head.

I've been asked to stay on for a couple extra weeks in the office, which has been a huge blessing. My sights are set on LA, but the move probably won't happen until February so I was going to have a couple weeks of limbo time, this at least cuts that time down. Plus as it comes to a close I will be sorry to see this job go. I've learned so much and been so fortunate to work with so many wonderful people. People who've taught me that it is possible to run a business with people's best interest in mind, rather than the best possible profit. Its kept me optimistic in these hard times.

That reminds me. As happy as I am for last year to be over I don't want to end it on a completely negative note, I have much to be thankful for in 2009:

I have my health, it seemed shaky for a bit, but really it could have been worse :)

I was employed! (Twice over which is quite amazing, and I recognize how very lucky I am.)

And lets not forget that I graduated from college!!! Yay! Its easy to forget about, and feels like so long ago but its true. It was the culmination of four wonderful years of hard work, and I couldn't be more excited.

So there you go, last year is over and this one is fresh and new. It smells like the pages of a newly opened book clean and fresh...maybe a little inky, but I can't wait to see where this year goes!